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Buddy got lost in an Arizona campground. Luckily, two women saw him running down the road and took it upon themselves to find his owner. Wochit

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She listened to her sons heartbeat in another mans chest. HUMANKIND

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Sonya honors her late brother, who died while serving in Iraq, by writing handwritten notes inside the violins she makes. Humankind

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This guy saw a baby dolphin struggling to get back into the water. He hopped out of his boat when he got to shore and helped the wild animal swim back into the ocean. Humankind

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This sanctuary for retired thoroughbred race horses is located inside a prison and run by inmates. HUMANKIND

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This mother attended every class with her quadriplegic son, taking notes and working alongside him. At his suggestion and with the support of the university, she was awarded an honorary MBA. HUMANKIND

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How a 5-year-old got Canadian Prime Minister Justin Trudeau to build a pillow fort in his office. Humankind

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After 17 years of trying to have kids, this couple welcomed six babies in one day. USA TODAY

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Adrian and his fraternity brothers started stepping after graduation. Then he surprised his girlfriend and everyone around them when he proposed to her. Humankind

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Dear Amy:My husband had weight loss surgery about five years ago and, although hes lost an incredible amount of weight, no one prepared me for the extreme psychological changes.

He is healthier and has more energy and confidence, but the negative changes blew me away.

He has become obsessive-compulsive. He writes down everything that goes into his mouth. He weighs himself every morning completely naked and documents it to the ounce. He has become self-absorbed, and is worrying only about himself.

Along with that, he is going through a midlife crisis. He bought a couple of sports cars and cruises around on the weekends. He goes out a couple times a week by himself for a few drinks.

He has such a high opinion of himself, he could be cheating for all I know, since our sex life has changed; I cant get used to how he looks.

Hes lost so much weight that he looks like an old man. His skin is hanging off of his body and he will not have it removed.

Everyone tells him he looks good to his face, but they tell ME hes way too thin, or they ask if hes sick.

Ive checked some weight loss websites and Im reading about the effects of extreme weight loss on a marriage and family.

Apparently, Im not alone. We tried counseling, but he refuses to admit the change in him. He blames ME for not accepting him since the weight loss.

I am now self-counseling, reading others stories, and trying to learn how to cope.

What do you think, Amy? Distressed

Dear Distressed: The psychological impact of extreme weight loss is being increasingly studied, because our current obesity epidemic is making extreme obesity, and extreme weight loss, more common.

Some of your husbands habits (keeping a detailed food and weight diary, for instance), are recommended after surgery as a way to keep the weight off. His other habit -- drinking alcohol -- is NOT recommended. And going out a couple times a week without you is not good for your relationship. Plastic surgery to remove extra skin is very expensive, and carries some risk. (But then, this also applies to sports cars.)

He may have slipped into compulsive behavior or an eating disorder, but you do need to understand that this change has brought on a whole-life transformation (for him), that is altering not only his own physique, health, and outlook, but also the way the world relates to him.

There is no question that some of your husbands behavior is not good for your marriage, and yet you are completely focused on him and his changes, without understanding that in order to stay together, you will also need to change.

You may be mourning the man your husband was before his weight loss, but that man is gone. The guy who replaced him might be a jerk, but if you want to stay together you should both focus on change and compromise.

Dear Amy: What do you think of people who have long coughing fits in restaurants or coffee shops where others are eating?

I say that they should get up and excuse themselves until theyre done, or, if the cough is chronic, they shouldnt come out at all until theyre well. They should do this out of consideration for other diners, who might catch whatever they have.

My wife thinks I lack compassion, although she agrees they should at least excuse themselves until their coughing fit is over.

What do you say? Unempathetic

Dear Unempathetic: I agree with your wife. Unless it is your waiter who suffers from a coughing fit while serving you, your first reaction should be one of compassion, rather than assuming that you might catch whatever illness the person has.

And if you have a suppressed immune system, making you susceptible to illness, maybe it is you who should stay home.

The thing about a coughing fit is that it is a fit. It comes on suddenly, and the person coughing assumes that it will end soon. Be nicer!

Dear Amy: Trying to Forgive described her feelings of betrayal because her husbands best friend (a pastor) knew he was having an affair, but didnt tell her.

Amy, I am a pastor, and discretion is an important part of our pastoral role. The pastor friend would have violated this if he had told her. Pastor

Dear Pastor: I was focused on his role as a friend, rather than a pastor. Thank you for the clarification.

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June 8, 2017 by Anthony King, From Horizon Magazine Theres a dangerous trend where apps that are the least evidence-based are downloaded more often. Credit: Pexels/ Adrianna Calvo

Half of European adults are either overweight or obese. Many turn to self-help apps as a means to burn excess fat, but despite hundreds of digital tools available very few help maintain a slimmer waistline and few are based on tried and tested science.

Following a weight loss plan can be challenging as it often depends on more than just counting calories or doing exerciseit requires behavioural change.

'We see a lot of apps that would claim to help you lose weight, but none maintain weight loss, and few of them are evidence-based,' said Professor Berit Heitmann, at Frederiksberg Hospital in Denmark.

There is also a dangerous trend where the apps that are the least evidence-based often have the most attractive interface and are therefore downloaded more.

'While between 9095 % of people who are overweight or obese can successfully lose weight, only 510 % can keep it off in the long run,' said Prof. Heitmann, who is also in charge of the EU-funded project NoHoW which is conducting research into tried and tested long-term weight loss techniques.

The project will design an app that will empower dieters to keep the kilos off through scientific-based approaches. NoHoW will equip 1 600 volunteers with a wireless weighing scale along with movement and heart monitors. Rather than tell people what they should eat, volunteers will be given techniques to help them reach goals, regulate emotion and manage stress, such as providing tailored advice on how to be more active or get better sleep.

In fact, it seems we all carry an ancient biological stamp that leaves us vulnerable to weight gain during times of difficulty or stress.

'For our ancestors it was beneficial to gain weight and conserve energy when food was scarce. This response to stress is probably still with us today,' explained Prof. Heitmann. 'It is not just that stress undercuts our good intentions, but it may better equip the body to conserve energy.'

Targeting when dieters enter these moments of stress may be crucial to help them overcome this evolutionary trait.

'We plan to help people manage stress and emotional instability. This will assist them in helping themselves,' said Prof. Heitmann.

Self-management of weight gain can help offset the huge economic burden of many health risks linked to obesity such as diabetes, which affects 60 million Europeans.

Diabetes

Dr Meena Daivadanam, public health scientist at the Karolinska Institute in Sweden, said that 'health care systems all over the world are struggling with diabetes.' Diabetes is a disease people have to live with day in, day out once they are diagnosed, and health systems are not equipped to deal with that, she adds.

Dr Daivadanam is the coordinator of the EU-funded SMART2D project, which has a people-centred approach that moves care beyond the clinic to the community. Health systems are usually built to cope with more sudden diseases or provide specialist care, rather than a lifestyle-related health problem, such as Type 2 diabetes, which requires long-term and often non-specialised care, she said.

The SMART2D project uses a social innovation model that brings patients and their families together in community-supported peer groups to help them self-manage their diabetes. By setting the study in three different countriesa rural, low-income area in Uganda, a middle-income town in South Africa, and vulnerable immigrant populations in Swedenit will be possible to develop evidence-based guidelines relevant to different communities.

'Members will have the chance to explore their needs and their local environment on their own terms, such as where to find healthy food outlets that are not so expensive,' said Dr Daivadanma.

Professor Stefan Peterson, health researcher at Uppsala University also in Sweden, who is a scientific advisor to the project, says peer support is a more supportive and empowering route to healthier lifestyle change, and reduces the burden on a health care system's personnel and resources.

Technology can lend a hand in self-management too, as shown in a new project putting artificial intelligence (AI) to work to help those with so-called Type 1 diabetes.

These days, Type 1 diabetics count carbs first and then inject insulin according to what they've eaten. They do this because they lack the enzymes to maintain healthy blood sugar levels after they eat.

Dr Clare Martin, computer scientist at Oxford Brookes University in the UK, explained that 'only a small minority of people keep their blood sugar within the target range' because 'it is hard to do' which often leaves diabetics feeling frustrated.

To relieve this situation, Dr Martin is coordinating an EU-funded project called PEPPER, which aims to empower diabetics by collecting real-time data of their condition and turning into personalised decision support.

'The idea is to use wearable technology, so a fitness band and continuous glucose monitor, to gather information on the person automatically,' said Dr Martin.

Wearers can add info such as how many carbs they consume, alcohol consumption and exercise intensity. They then get advice on their smartphone or pump handset telling them how much insulin to take.

'The artificial intelligence works a bit like human memory. It builds up a database of past information and evaluates each dose to see whether it was a good or bad dose, and so discovers what works best for the individual,' said Dr Martin.

The glucose monitor is around the size of a USB stick, and the insulin pump is about the size of a Tic Tac box. Studies are just beginning on a small number of patients, with a particular focus on the safety system. Dr Martin is planning for a full clinical trial in 2018 before their technology can be scaled up.

'If patients are happy with the device, we hope to move towards commercialisation,' she said.

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Walking has helped Susan Ellis lose weight, stay fit and keep up with her grandkids

By the time Susan Ellis turned 50, she was down 50 pounds after less than six months of exercise and healthy eating. More than a decade later, the Papillion woman continues to maintain that weight loss. She uses her time at the gym to catch up on television while clipping along on the treadmill. Its helped her to keep active while traveling with her husband and keep up with her grandkids.

Q: When did you start working out and why?

A: We just moved here three years ago when my husband retired. I lost 50 pounds for my 50th birthday. I just want to keep it off and live as well as I can.

Q: Describe your workouts. How many days per week do you exercise?

A: I work out about four days per week. I walk. I do a minimum of 4.5 miles.

Q: What is your current fitness goal?

A: Id like to get to 5 miles in an hour. Im pretty happy. My doctor says Im in good shape.

Q: What has been your biggest accomplishment?

A: Well, this sounds really dumb but when I was 10, I was 5 feet 8 inches. My nickname in junior high was Big Ugly. Im glad to see now thats considered bullying. At my 45th reunion, I saw people in there way bigger and way uglier. I settled that score. Part of it was my being self-conscious. I want to be the best version of what I can be. I may not be Miss America, but its good enough for me.

Q: What has been the toughest hurdle and how did you overcome it?

A: I would say Im a work in progress. Feeling good and being healthy opens the doorway to a lot of new things. There are a lot of good years ahead.

Q: What helps you stay on track?

A: Weighing. Theres a number, and youre either up or down. A lot of people avoid the scale, because if you dont step on it, you dont weigh that. Its a wake-up call to me. I weigh myself at least once a week.

Q: What is your gym pet peeve?

A: Youre not supposed to come in this area if youre under a certain age. Its not safe and sometimes they take my favorite machine. I like little kids, but not in here.

Q: What do you do when you arent in the gym?

A: Traveling, photography, book club, and spending time with grandkids.

Q: What is the piece of equipment, supplement, clothing, etc. that you cant live without?

A: I love the TV (built in the treadmill) because its a great distraction. Otherwise, youre just counting down the minutes.

Q: What advice would you give to someone who is just starting their fitness journey?

A: It really is a step at a time. Fifty pounds ago, I couldnt have walked much more than around the block. I just want to keep going as long as I can. Some people can do it alone, but some cant. The Y has wonderful trainers and supportive people.

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Feed your muscle Jacob Lund/ShutterstockIf you're in your 40s and have noticed your weight creeping up even though your diet and exercise routine haven't changed, you can blame your muscles (or lack thereofhere are five daily habits for preserving your muscle). "Beginning in your thirties, you will lose about one percent of your muscle mass each year, and in the following decade, you will lose muscle at a higher rate," says Caroline Apovian, MD, director of the Nutrition and Weight Management Center at the Boston Medical Center. Muscle is metabolically active, meaning it's burning calories on your behalf, even if you're just binge watching House of Cards. "All lost muscle will be replaced by fatand your metabolism will slow down correspondinglyunless your habits actively counteract this process," says Dr. Apovian. "Eat a diet rich in lean protein sources and incorporate at least two strength training sessions into your weekly routine." Shoot for about 30 grams of protein per meal. Feed your gut Ildi Papp/ShutterstockBy now, we've all heard the importance probiotics play in having healthy gut, but a recent study suggests another good reason for premenopausal women is that a diverse population of gut bacteria may be more efficient at managing estrogenpotentially lowering the risk for breast cancer. "I always suggest that women in their 40s include more prebiotic and probiotic-rich foods in their diet, like kefir, sauerkraut and tempeh," says Natalie Rizzo, MS, RD. Most of us aren't likely to eat those foods every day, which is why Rizzo recommends a probiotic supplement. But with so many probiotics flooding the shelves which do we choose? Our gut is home to over 100 trillion live bacteria containing a plethora of strains, and each person has their unique collection. "That's why it's recommended that you take a probiotic that has the most cultures and strains possible," says Rizzo. "That will help you cover your bases. It's perfectly fine to take a probiotic supplement and eat probiotic rich foods."

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Im ready for the war Ive waged against my body to stop. Ive got a white flag up, and Im happily waving it. Its time to fall in love with the home that carries me everywhere I need to go. Its time to cherish the space that safely grew my daughter for over nine months.

Its time to finally make peace with my body.

Yesterday, I posted a side-by-side transformation Tuesday photo on Instagram. I shared the image in an effort to officially join the body positive movement Ive been learning so much about. In the last day, the post has been viewed 30K times, with over 1K likes and supportive comments pouring in.

Normally when these transformation images are shared, they are all about weight loss. The before shot is of a person who is unsatisfied with the current state of their body, and the after shot almost always shows a slimmer, trimmer version of them. All of this is done in the name of progress, with the after photo implying that the person is much happier with themselves now that they have lost a bunch of weight.

But my photo was much different, becauseit was inspired by the extraordinary women who have recently challenged the notion that we need to lose weight in order to feel happy in our body.

On one side, I share a photo from 10 years ago. I may be smiling, but underneath it all, Im judging myself. While scarily thin in the image, I was still holding out hope that I could lose even more weight.

On the left is a 23-year-old woman who literally thought she was chubby in the picture shared, I wrote. She was self-conscious, critical of her physical shape, and always either on a diet or rebelling from one. She only saw flaws in the mirror. She acted happy, but there was definitely a restlessness, because she was worried about what would happen if she physically became anything other than what she was (which was not good enough for her anyway).

On the other side, I share a photo from this weekend. Its me in the postpartum body I now call home. In it, Im at least 50 pounds heavier than I was a decade ago. Im standing with a carefree grin on my face, the evidence of my post-baby belly tucked under a tank top and jeans.

On the right is a 33-year-old woman who is learning to love her body without pressuring it to be anything other than what it is, I continued. She is getting to the heart of why, at 23, she hated her body so much. And in the process, she is healing a lifelong struggle of never fully seeing herself for the extraordinary human being she is.

Ive been blown away by how much this photo has resonated with so many others. One woman was reminded of how long it has taken her to finally love her own body. So glad you are able to love yourself and realize how beautiful you really are, she commented. I dealt with some of [the] same issues most of my life, but it took me a lot longer to love myself for what I really am.

Another praised the universal sentiment a post like this embodies for women everywhere. I love this. This is the same for so many of us. Thank you for sharing it, she wrote.

I easily connected with these comments, because I have written so many of my own underneath all the body-loving photos Ive seen this past year. When I started researching the body positive movement last year, I was hoping to find other women out there like me. I was hoping to find women who have birthed a baby and have the evidence written all over their bodies things like stretch marks, extra squish around their tummies, wider hips, and fuller figures. I was looking for solidarity at a time when I felt unrecognizable looking in the mirror after so many years of trying to maintain a thin frame.

What I ended up finding took my breath away. In the past year alone, there have been hundreds of women taking to social media to change the way they and we see their bodies. And the sheer amount of moms who have begun publicly accepting their physical selves has been nothing short of inspiring!

Just last month, a mother shared an Instagram photo of herself and wrote about how important it is to love our bodies after giving birth. Not only did the post receive over 67K likes, it also inspired yet another mama to post a similar picture of her postpartum body! Underneath it, she writes, My body isnt what it used to be, but even when I was a size eight, I was unhappy with how I looked. Its not a size thing. Its not a weight thing. Its an inner feeling thing. My body gave me the two most important things in my life.

Another woman recently shared how trying on a bikini in front of her daughter became a teachable moment about body acceptance, and it has naturally resonated with hundreds of thousands of women on Facebook.

As my daughter gets older, and she faces judgment and criticism, I will always remind her that the girls who look the prettiest in a two piece, or a body suit, or a freaking Snuggie, are the ones who are happy. Because thats ALL that matters, she wrote.

And my personal favorite? A fitness blogger is being celebrated this week for sharing the reasons why she finallyloves herpostpartum stretch marks, thanks to her husband. As someone who is devoting herself to physical fitness and wellness, it was a meaningful moment to overhear hersharing how proud she is of how her body has changed. For her husband, the stretch marks reflect the incredible journey shes experienced in becoming a mother. I looked at my stretch marks and I felt pride, she wrote. I felt love. The love of my husband and the love of my children. Each one of them had been nurtured and lived behind those scars for nine months.

In the bodies of so many women who have learned to love themselves, I begin to see myself. The more I witness these courageous examples, the more I have hope for my own journey. The woman I see today in the mirror is most definitely not a version of me Im used to. She has expanded, she has softened, and she has strengthened. She has grown up, into someone who is going to spend every day falling deeper in love with exactly who she is. She is going to extend that same love to the daughter and stepdaughter she is helping to raise.

She is going to finally make peace with her body.

For the first time in my life, I am excited to learn who I am when Im not tearing down myself with criticism and judgment. Thanks to all of these women and the body positive movement, I get to make friends with the miracle that is my body for the very first time.

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