This weekend, after months of working on a positive mindset and    more self-love, I was somehow launched back into my past ways    of thinking.  
    Perhaps its because my regular     eating patterns were disrupted, or perhaps its because I    hadnt hit the gym    as hard this past week.  
    Whatever it was, it nearly ruined a good part of my two days    off.  
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    I was reminded of the girl I used to be in the first few years    of college, the girl letting life pass her by because she    was(miserably) eyeballs-deep into My Fitness Pal and Crossfit.  
    It didnt matter that Id put countless hours and effort into    loving myself. I just had a few of those days.  
    Im smart enough to know that low points along the path to    body-image recovery are unavoidable, and no journey is smooth    sailing the entire way.  
    In the past year, Ive had a lot of these low points. Each    time, though, I become a little more prepared to deal with    them.  
    Heres what I do (and what you can do, too) to recover from a    bad body image day:  
    This is the most important recovery tip out of the five. Having    a bad body image day does not excuse you lashing out on your    body.  
    Do you ever remember a time when treating something with hate    actually fixed the problem?  
    Ive seen countless tweets, posts, snaps and texts of people    saying, Going to the gym to work off that [insert treat] I    just ate. This mindset is destructive; there is no better word    for it.  
    Training your brain to believe you cannot enjoy food without    burning it all off after makes it impossible to indulge without    guilt.  
    If youre feeling bad about your body, dont force yourself    through grueling workouts if youre sore and uncomfortable.  
    More importantly, do not skip meals or tell yourself you arent    worthy of food.  
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    You had a doughnut for breakfast. You dont need to eat a    burger for dinner. Way too many carbs, my inner mean    girl scolded. You have to shut her down.  
    Many times, your body telling you youre not allowed to eat    something is actually a cry for real nourishment. Dont confuse    the two.  
    Eat for fuel, and remember that deprivation and restriction    will only make you feel worse.  
    We all like compliments. Being told youre beautiful, skinny,    pretty or successful is one of the most gratifying feelings.  
    Sometimes, though looking for compliments can add extra tension    to relationships.  
    I find myself doing this once in a while to a friend, to my    husband or to my family.  
    I just feel like I work so hard and never get anywhere, Ill    say robotically.  
    They usually reply with something positive that I know I want    to hear, which helps for a total of one second.  
    After the compliment is gone, however, that instant    gratification is gone with it.  
    Remember: The best validation needs to come from within. YOU    need to feel good about YOURSELF.  
    Waiting around for others to tell you how wonderful you look    adds extra anxiety to the body image struggle.  
    Dont add stress to your positive relationships on your bad    body image days by looking for ways to get compliments.  
    When I say nourish, I am not talking about a total detox.  
    Multiple articles exist on the web telling women that to    recover from a poor day of eating, it helps to cut out all    dairy, carbs, fats and sugars.  
    These are usually the articles that have links to tea detoxes    and feature ways to lose 10 pounds in a week.  
    If youre struggling because your eating patterns have been    disrupted with parties or events, or youve indulged in lots of    tasty food for any reason, you do NOT need to remove any food    groups from you next few days.  
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    What you should do is simply be mindful of what your body    wants. Intuitive eating is a practice that must be learned, and    there are a lot of resources regarding it.  
    But, simply listening to your appetite and hunger cues is    crucial.  
    Do you feel parched? Drink water.  
    Are you exhausted, but hungry? Eat something with lots of    vitamins, minerals and protein.  
    This doesnt have to be eight almonds and a PowerBar. It can be    a delicious meal packed with nutrients.  
    It might even contain sugars, healthy fats and carbs.  
    These things are not the enemy; they are fuel. Although its    100 percent OK to have treats if thats what your body wants,    you will find that sometimes your body wants true nourishment.  
    In these moments, give it the healthy and enriching foods that    it needs.  
    Whenever you have a bad body image day, the best thing you can    do is be prepared to deal with it in healthy ways.  
    Dana Suchow, mastermind of Do The Hotpants, refers to    having a toolbox of resources to help get you through the bad    days.  
    Save articles about body positivity that resonate with you.    Cleanse your social media of thinspo accounts or anyone who    makes you feel a lesser version of yourself.  
    Follow accounts with body positive messages (a few of my    favorite are@nourishandeat, @girlmeetsweights, @dothehotpantsand @bodyposipanda).  
    Read books that empower you and teach you healthy practices,    such as The Goddess Revolution by    Mel Wells (another great account to    follow).  
    The more tools you have to turn to on your bad days, the easier    they will be.  
    The body positivity community online is incredible. These girls    and guys show you that you are not alone in your struggle.  
    Use these tools to help overcome the bad days whenever you need    to.  
    Recovery from disordered thoughts, eating, compulsive    exercising and self-loathing is not an instant fix.  
    Changing a paradigm that youve been programmed to believe for    years can be incredibly difficult to change. It can take    months, even years, to really feel the changes.  
    The brain is a powerful and stubborn thing. It takes slow,    patient coaxing to shift your mindset.  
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    All you can do is take it one day at a time. Be nice to    yourself when you look in the mirror, and realize you are doing    the best you can.  
    Sometimes, I will look at myself and think this:  
      In this very moment that I stand here, I am doing everything      I possibly can to love myself. I will not punish my body. I      am worthy of enjoying food. I do not need to earn anything.    
    Find your mantra, and chant it in your head over and over until    you start to believe it.  
    Each little step in recovery is one larger step toward    self-love. Although it can be daunting to look forward when    youve been sucked back into the cycle, you can pull yourself    out.  
    Eventually, the bad days become fewer, and the good days start    to overcome them.  
    Youll get there, I promise.  
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